Our Trip West

We left North Carolina on August 9 and traveled to Kirtland, Ohio. We hadn’t been to Kirtland for more than 40 years and it was interesting to see the difference. We loved being able to visit the LDS historic sites and to visit the Kirtland temple.
From Kirtland we drove to Lake Forest, Illinois and had dinner with Bob’s college roommate (and the best man at our wedding), and his wife — Bob and Kathy McFarland. It was great to catch up with them. It had been quite a few years since we last saw them.
The next two days we spent with our family in Gurnee, IL. On Friday, we saw Ryann for just a few minutes before she had to hurry off to work, and we took Isabelle and Bobby out to lunch and a movie. (We saw Pete’s Dragon.) Their mom, Maria, joined us for dinner near the theater, and then she had an evening commitment. We went back to their house and played games with the kids.
On Saturday, we picked up Isabelle and Bobby and took the train downtown. Spent some time at the Art Institute (fabulous!!) and at the Navy Pier.
Isabelle had fallen off her board about a week before she got there and her hand was still swollen. Even though she didn’t complain, I think she was uncomfortable with it while we were out. She seemed eager to get home and put some ice on it. (I expressed my concern to her mom that I thought it could be broken, but last I heard, Isabelle had still not been seen by a doctor.)
We had a bit of a mad dash to the train on the way back from Chicago. The scheduled bus leaving Navy Pier didn’t arrive, and the next bus, scheduled 20 min. later was more than 20 min, late! When we got to the train station, we raced to the track we needed and got on the train. We were barely inside the train when it started backing out. Sure glad we made it!
That evening we ate dinner at the Japanese restaurant where Ryann works so we’d have another chance to see her.
On Sunday morning, we drove to Rockford, IL and went to church in the Rockford 1st Ward, then went to spend the rest of the day with my twin brother, Bill, and his wife, Julette. It was a great visit!
 Monday morning we continued our trek west, stopping outside Minneapolis to visit my father’s gravesite. The last time I was there was when he was buried, and if it hadn’t been for some good information from my brother, Bill, I’m not sure I would have found it.
We also stopped in Alexandria, MN to see the Viking Museum, including a 3/4 scale of a viking ship. It was an interesting museum. I don’t remember ever learning that the vikings came this far inland, but there is plenty of evidence that they did.
Continuing our journey, we then stopped for a late lunch at the Fryn’ Pan restaurant in Wahpeton, North Dakota. (ND is one of the states we needed to include so we can someday say we’ve visited all of 50 of them. We’ll also be in SD, NE, and OR for the first time on this trip!)
From ND, we headed south and spent the night in Sioux Falls, SD. Traveling across South Dakota took all day, but, there were several interesting stops to help break up the trip. SD helped me appreciate the phrase in our national anthem about “amber waves of grain.” Lots of wide-open spaces here.
Our first stop after Sioux Falls was at the Corn Palace in Mitchell. Its amazing that this town redesigns and constructs all the images on the outside of the building every year. This year the theme was rock and roll. Its a clever way to get people to a town they might not ever stop in otherwise! :-)
On the other side of the state, in Wall, SD, is the famous Wall Drug. If you travel across that state you can’t miss the numerous billboards encouraging you to stop there. And, there is quite a bit in this one shop. It was fun to browse, and I was able to buy some sun screen since mine was getting low.
Our next stop was Sturgis and we were glad we were able to spend a few minutes in the Sturgis Motorcycle Museum. (We arrived later in the day than we had hoped so didn’t get to spend much time there.) Interesting place!



Our lodging for the night was at a nice little B&B in Keystone, SD, very near to Mount Rushmore. After dinner, we drove up to try to catch the night show at Mount Rushmore, but there was some lightning nearby, so they cancelled the show. The next day we got some great views, though! Its incredible to know that 90% of the “carving” that was done was done with dynamite.
We also drove to see the Crazy Horse Monument. What a massive undertaking! And, since they won’t accept any federal funds, (you know, that whole Native American vs. U.S. government thing) and are relying on private donations to complete the work, its going fairly slowly. It will be fabulous when its complete! In the video they show at the visitors center they say that the people who are dynamiting here have so much experience, that although the national standard for blasting is to be able to get within 8” of where you want to be, they consistently are able to blast within 3”. Amazing!
 To get an idea of scale, you could place all of the heads on Mt. Rushmore in the rectangle just behind Crazy Horse's head!
From here, we drove to Nebraska and stayed near the Chimney Rock National Historic Site. This site and our visit to Scott’s Bluff the next morning really gave me an appreciate for all those pioneers to walked across these plains! As slow as their progress was, it must have been discouraging to see one of these sites in the distance and yet it took days and days to get there. They were a brave lot, traveling so far into the unknown as they did!
 View from the top of Scott's Bluff
On Friday we made it to Fort Collins, CO, met up with my nephew, Steve Wade, and he went with us to tour the new Ft. Collins temple. What a beautiful place! (I found myself feeling a bit jealous for our little Raleigh temple.) Steve is not a member of the church, and we enjoyed being able to answer his questions.

We then went to dinner at Austins. This was the best meal of our entire trip!! I need to visit my nephew more often just so we can eat there! :-) Steve is going to be participating in a triathlon in a couple of weeks - swim a mile, bike 56 miles, then run a half-marathon. I’m still wondering how people think that’s fun, but, hooray for him!
Saturday morning we met up with my niece, Cheryl Meakins, and her family at Steuben’s in old town Arvada, CO. Steve also joined us since he hadn’t seen Cheryl in several years either. We had a good visit over a late breakfast, then continued on.
We stopped in Vail along the way and I finally understand the attraction. What a lovely place! We enjoyed seeing the peaceful, little Betty Ford garden nearby, too.
From there we drove to Grand Junction and spent the night.
After attending church on Grand Junction Sunday morning, we drove to Utah and spent about an hour in Arches National Park. (Since we have Senior Park Passes, we get in to all the parks free.) We didn’t have time to drive through as much of it as we would have liked, but, we enjoyed what we did see.

That night, we checked into our hotel in Salt Lake City. It felt great to know all that driving was behind us.
On Monday, Aug 21, we secured a storage unit at a facility not too far from the apartment we’ll be living in. We decided it would be better to put everything in storage that we don’t absolutely have to have with us this week. It felt great to lighten our load. We also went to Mr. Mac and bought a couple of suits for Bob that he’ll need for the mission.
Tuesday was the first time we could just relax in the room for the morning. Aaahhhh!
Because we’ve never been to Oregon, and we had these few extra days in Salt Lake before we head to the MTC, and because the 24th is our anniversary, we decided to take a quick trip, just for fun. So, Tuesday evening we flew to Portland.
On Wednesday (our anniversary) we went downtown, enjoyed having lunch at the Portland Soup Company — one of the permanent “trucks” that is part of Portland’s famous food-truck row. Bob had soup, but I had a delicious pork sandwich. Yum!
 
After lunch we met up with Keryssa, who gave us a Segway tour of the city. It was our first time on a Segway and we really enjoyed it. We’ve been blessed with beautiful weather for almost all of our trip across the country and this day was not exception.
We asked our Segway guide to recommend a good place for dinner and she suggested the Portland City Grill, so that’s where we went. It did not disappoint. We had a window table with a great view of Mount Hood, and the restaurant staff even put fun anniversary “sprinkles” on our table. (Tiny hearts and cutouts of the words “Happy Anniversary”)
We also used Uber for the first time while we were here. It was a really quick, cost effective way for us to get around.
Before we left on Thursday, we visited the beautiful Japanese Gardens in Portland. There was some construction going on, which detracted some from the peacefulness one usually feels in such a place, but it was wonderful to see, anyway. I love Japanese gardens!


Late Thursday afternoon we flew back to Salt Lake City and drove to Sandy, where we stayed for two nights.
Friday, we did a little more shopping and ate lunch on the 10th floor of the Joseph Smith Memorial Building. The food was just okay, but, the view can’t be beat! (I’d forgotten how beautiful the Joseph Smith Memorial Building is!)

On Saturday, we put the luggage we’d been using this week in storage and pulled out the things we needed for the Mission Training Center (MTC). Then, we drove to Provo and checked in to our MTC lodgings. We were able to get there in time to go to an afternoon session at the Provo City Center Temple. Oh, wow! What a fabulous place!! We didn’t want to leave.
We had sacrament meeting that Sunday with the International Branch at the MTC. All the missionaries in this branch are from other countries and speak English as a second language. (The meeting was held in English.) One speaker was from Guatamala and one from the Dominican Republic. We also heard from a member of the branch presidency and his wife. But, the highlight of the meeting was a special musical number by a choir from one of the districts. It was a medley of Primary songs, and different parts of it were sung in different languages — Spanish, Japanese, and English. It was beautiful and the spirit was really strong.
We also attended a couple of special devotionals that evening. Super experiences! So glad we had the opportunity to attend those.

While We Wait

After selling the house, going to my class reunion, and taking our fun trip to Mackinac Island, we settled in to wait until time to leave for our mission. Pat and Harold Hargett have been very kind to let us live in their upstairs all these weeks, and we are very grateful to them. (We left our home on June 22 and leave for our mission Aug 9)
The Hargetts are such good people! We have the whole upstairs to ourselves, but we share their kitchen, so Pat and I take turns cooking and doing dishes.
As soon as we returned from Michigan, I needed to finish making a baptismal dress for our granddaughter, Lily. I loved being able to do it, and Pat had an extra machine in her sewing room that she let me use. I enjoyed sharing that space with Pat while we both sewed — she on a quilt, and me on the dress.
Lily's baptism was the Saturday after we got back, July 16th, and she looked precious in her new dress.
I love seeing our grandchildren being baptized! Such a sweet occasion. 

And. . . since Lily's baptism, we've been filling our time with an assortment of activities. 
I hired Dana Wood to finish a painting that I started last year because it became clear that in the midst of everything else, I wouldn't be able to complete it. He took some artistic liberties with it and I'm kind of disappointed with the final outcome, but I had already given it back to him once because he needed fix some things that weren't right, and, this time, I felt I just needed to take it and go. He said that Susy could bring it back to him any time if she wasn't satisfied with it, but I doubt that she will. I wanted the painting to be a surprise for Susy, but I could tell, she wasn't too excited with it. Oh well. . .
 This is the photo I started with.
 Here's the underpainting I did before giving it to Dana.
And, this is the final painting. 
It's a good enough painting, but their heads are not proportional to each other and the fact that he made her head so small, instead of painting from the photo and the underpainting I gave him, really bothers me. Oh well. . . I think Dana is a good artist, and I've seen portraits he's done of his own family members that are great - but, for some reason, he just couldn't seem to envision this one the way I expected. I wish I'd been able to finish it myself. It probably wouldn't have looked as "painterly", but, I think I might have been happier with it. I just had too much else going on to do it. . .

On a better note, I got John's quilt back from the long-arm quilter who was working it, and was able to finish it, and add the binding. I'm very happy to say I'm heading off on our mission with all of my children and my husband having quilts I've made for them. Woo Hoo! It was delightful to be able to present this quilt to John.

I think he's pretty happy with it - although, now it seems my other sons may be jealous that he got a cooler quilt than they did. . .

We also continue to pare down for the mission. We still had two cars when we got to the Hargetts, and didn't consolidate as much as we should have. Now, my car is sold and we can only take what we can fit in Bob's car, so we keep sorting through and taking more stuff to storage. We do have a couple of small boxes of things we don't need right away that we're giving to Heather to mail after we get there. But, since we're taking our time driving across country, we don't want to have so much stuff visible in the back seat that someone might be tempted to steal it — we only want to have as much in the back as we're willing to carry into the hotel each night along the way. (We feel it will be safe to leave things in the trunk, but not out where others can see it.)

It's fun that we already have our mission address and know we'll be living right across the street from the Conference Center in the West Temple apartments. (185 N. West Temple, Apt. 709, SLC) We'll be on the 7th floor, on the west side of the building, so won't have a view of the temple from our apartment, but, I think we'll still have a pleasant view. Its an older building — I understand we'll have formica counter tops and scratched up porcelain sinks with old metal rims — but that's okay. We'll be within walking distance of anywhere in the mission and these apartments have two bedrooms, which I really wanted. All the newer, fancier apartments are only one bedroom. This way we have a place for visitors to sleep and I'm hoping some of our kids will come even if we can only spend very limited time with them while they're there.

We're stopping in several places on the way west, and we're looking forward to the trip, as well as beginning our mission!

Mackinac Island

Several years ago, we realized that over the years we've managed to visit (not just drive through) most of the U.S., so we set a goal to visit each U.S. state at some point. Michigan is one of the states we hadn't gotten to, yet, so we decided to go.
We had sold our home and still had plenty of time before we leave for our mission, so, why not? On July 6, we flew to Michigan, then rented a car to take us to the ferry, which then took us to the island.

This is us on the ferry - on the way to the island.
We were blessed with beautiful weather while we were there!
No cars are allowed on the island (The ferry companies have parking facilities), so, one thing you notice is that its quieter than most places, You just have to watch out for lots of bicycles and horses when crossing the street.
When we first arrived, I noticed the smell of horse manure, but, they do a really good job of keeping the streets clean, so most of the time you don't notice that. There are men on bicycles, pulling small carts behind them, that sweep up throughout the day.
The horses you see in town are all hitched to carriages. There are places on the island that rent horses to ride, but, generally, you don't see them on the main streets of the town.
 We took a tour of the island with Daisy and Paisley and their driver, Blake.
Its a quaint place. Very relaxing - which is what I was looking for. 
It seems like every other shop on the main street sells fudge! And, we learned that visitors are called "fudgies" by the locals.
Of course, this is the island that became famous as the place where the movie Somewhere In Time was filmed. And, while there, we went to the Grand Hotel and enjoyed a nice lunch and a tour of the hotel and grounds.
This is us on the enormous porch of the Grand Hotel.

The Grand Hotel
Close up of the endtrance
View from the portico 

There were several historic buildings on the island - with enactors who shared stories of the early settlers.

We enjoyed this lovely scene on a morning walk.

The island has lots and lots of places to rent bikes - and I got a kick out of the "parking lot" of the local police station.

We had lunch one day at the Hotel Iroquois. Great food. Fabulous view. (We tried to stay here, but it was already booked, so we stayed across the street, at the Lake View Hotel.) After lunch, it was nice to sit on a bench by the water's edge and enjoy the day.
One last shot as we left the island. 
We had a wonderful, relaxing visit and would recommend it for a great getaway! This quote pretty well sums it up: "As a place of resort during the summer months, there can be none more desirable - none possessing more attractive features and health-restoring influences than this island of Mackinac." - New York Weekly Tribune, July 9, 1853.

50-Year High School Reunion

Early this year, Bob and I bought our plane tickets for a trip to St. Louis in late June, so I could attend my high school reunion, and he could visit with family nearby, as well. However, the closing on our home in Fuquay-Varina happened to coincide with this trip, so we had to be out of our house before we left on June 24th.

I boxed up everything ahead of time, then the moving company came on June 22nd and moved everything into our two storage units. The next day, June 23, a few sisters from the ward came and helped me do the final cleaning. Whew! So thankful for them!

Pat and Harold Hargett have been kind enough to offer us the upstairs of their home to stay in until we leave for our mission. They are SO nice to do this!! So we were able to move the stuff we're taking with us, plus items we need in the interim to their place. Late that Thursday afternoon (the 23rd) we drove to North Raleigh to pre-sign the closing papers. Our realtor represented us at the closing the following Tuesday, and we were officially homeless when we arrive back at RDU on June 28th.

On Aug 24, exhausted from everything related to the move, we flew to St. Louis. Bob's cousin, Judy, lives less than 1/2 hour drive from the airport so we went to her place to visit and spend the night. Judy and Bob grew up next door to each other and she's the closest relative he has (since he's an only child). She's like a sister to him. Bob didn't go to the reunion with me, but stayed with Judy and they hung our together and saw other family members.

Saturday morning, the 25th, I drove to my brother's house and enjoyed time with two of my brothers and one sister while there for the reunion.

But, a 50-year reunion??!! How can I be this old? It doesn't seem possible that I could have graduated from high school 50 years ago! Union, Missouri. is a small town —only about 3,000 people lived there when I was growing up. We had 123 people in our graduating class, and 69 of us made it to this reunion. 27 of our classmates have already died.

The organizers did a great job with all the planning and I think everyone enjoyed themselves. It really was great to visit with old friends and to see how they're doing. (Mostly, though, everyone just looked old.)

Many of the friends from my first-grade class were at the reunion. And it was fun to
look at this old photo and be able to recognize each one. In many ways, they look the same, just older. 
My daughter, Laura, asked where my twin brother, Bill, was in this photo, but since they didn't put twins in the same class, he's not pictured here.
Glad that so many could make it to this reunion.
It was great to see everyone after so many years. Several people asked about the mission Bob and I will be going on, and one woman, came up and touched my face, and said, "You have such a glow about you! You look so happy!" It was really sweet.
Also, I won the prize for having the most grandchildren! Woohoo! It's a bag full of goodies to share with the grandkids - Moon Pies, Swedish Fish and Neon bracelets.